Act first, get motivated later.
There are three big lies about exercise and good nutrition.
Lie #1: You have to be “inspired” to do practice healthy habits. Lie #2: You should always be “motivated” to practice. Lie #3: “Experts” are always motivated to practice.
Nope. Even for healthy-lifestyle pros, there’s no such thing as permanent motivation. You will not always be “motivated” or “inspired”. You will not always feel “flow”.
Motivation comes and goes. Some days that motivation will be totally MIA. But that doesn’t matter.
You don’t need motivation nor inspiration to have good habits.
In fact, what differentiates an “expert” from an “amateur” is not motivation . . . but action.
“Experts” hunker down and find ways to get the job done, regardless of how they feel.
Action before motivation
We assume that motivation and inspiration — in other words, a particular mental state — come before action.
Sometimes that’s true. Most of the time, it’s not.
Action usually comes before motivation and that desired mental state.
For instance, let’s say one day you decide to go for a walk. You’re not really inspired per se, but your brain feels fuzzy and you want some fresh air.
At first, you just sort of clump along, staring at the ground.
After 5 or 10 minutes, the brisk breeze starts to clear the cobwebs. You stand taller and breathe more deeply. Your stride lengthens and your hips loosen up. Now you’re walking proudly. You have direction.
The movement is actually giving you energy.
After 20–30 minutes, you finish that walk on a high. Your brain fuzz is gone, replaced by crystal-clear thoughts. Your body is energized. You feel re-engaged with life and the universe.
Now you’ve found that motivated mental state. What changed?
You acted first.
The 3 “Ss”
Motivation and inspiration are like cats: They’re fickle in their affections, and they tend to disappear when you want them around.
You can’t depend on cats. Nor can you depend on motivation and inspiration.
Instead, you can depend instead on the 3 Ss:
• structure • systems • scheduling
Structures are the things and environments that surround us, and the things we put in place to ensure that things get done.