Behaviour & Consistency
The Destination Postcard: deciding who you are becoming
Most health plans fail because they describe activities rather than a destination. A clear picture of your future self makes the daily decisions far easier.
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23 October 2025 · 7 min
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About this episode
We all like to think that logic drives our choices, but when it comes to health, fitness, and weight loss, emotion and belief are often in charge.
In this episode of The Resilient Life, Chris Deavin, health coach and creator of The W.I.S.D.O.M Program, explores why simply knowing what to eat or how to train isn’t enough.
He explains how deeply held beliefs, social influence, and fear of standing apart from others can stop us from doing what we already know will help us.
You’ll learn:
* Why facts and evidence rarely change behaviour (and what does)
* How to identify and challenge unhelpful beliefs about health and ageing
* The powerful link between resilience, mindset, and lasting consistency
* How to reshape your environment so it supports your goals instead of sabotaging them
Because before you can change your body, you have to change what you believe about what’s possible.
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